Sex, Love, & Santa Barbara

Warts and All

He's back. Tanned, toned, and charming as ever! My long lost boyfriend has finally returned from the dark corners of Europe. Read story.

Friday, June 29, 2007

The Words and the Sound of Silence

The Biker calls from overseas to say "I love you," and Chassy's response is less than reciprocative. Read story.

Friday, June 22, 2007

Hot or Heavy

Chassy dishes on why she dressed up pretty - and what fun can happen when she doesn't. Read story.

Thursday, June 14, 2007

The One and Lonely

With her boyfriend away, Chassy ponders the pros and cons of serial monogamy Read story.

Friday, June 8, 2007

Mate & Multiply

With her new boyfriend away overseas, Chassy stays home, winds down, and begins to ponder her future goals. Read story.

Friday, June 1, 2007

Unchecked Baggage

Chassy discusses how updating old friends about recent loves can bring up some painful issues. Also: Is snooping ever permissible? Read story.

Thursday, May 24, 2007

The Laws of Love

Ryan Keys-Matthews of lays down some ground rules for finding that special someone. Read story.

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Soulmate in Santa Barbara

Ryan Keys-Mathews of subs in for The Indy's Chasseur d'Homme. Read story.

Friday, May 4, 2007

Get Your Flirt On

Chassy takes a little pre-vacation vacation and rediscovers the joys of no-strings-attached flirting. Read story.

Monday, April 30, 2007

Putting Him To The Test

As Chassy gets deeper into her relationship with The Biker, she's wondering when it's time to take off the condom. Read story.

Monday, April 23, 2007

Too Much Information

Things are on an even keel with The Biker (or should I say my new BF?). And let me reiterate that my interest in the man is not purely physical or sexual-like some suggested-although I do appreciate his perfect Brad Pitt-like buttocks; nothing wrong with that. Read story.

Monday, April 16, 2007

Shape Up or Ship Out

Polish is so not the new sexy. If it was, I'd have to make a few changes to my appearance, like growing a mustache and dying my hair bright orange. Read story.

Monday, April 9, 2007

Enter Polish Pro Tennis Player

Ryan is of the firm belief that I need to exercise less caution in my relationship with The Biker (speak up about any super-ex-fears etc.), forget about my fling; The Writer (he called this "a comfort thing that goes nowhere"), and be open to new friendships and perhaps more, as long as I'm not in an exclusive relationship. Time to go with my primal instincts! Read story.

Monday, April 2, 2007

Near Naked Ambush at the Gym

Thanks so much to those of you who emailed me and commented with your blind date disaster stories! It was highly entertaining, and certainly made me feel like a lot less of a failure in the first-date-department. Also, I was excited to see that a (hot!) real-live relationship expert has popped up and offered to share some advice on how to succeed in the dating game. Read story.

Monday, March 26, 2007

A Perfect-on-Paper Blind Date

Chassy goes on a blind date with a Johnny Depp look-a-like, worries about running into The Biker, and then sparks up a text message conversation with The Writer. And she's wondering what everyone else's blind dating life is like, so let her know! Read story.

Monday, March 19, 2007
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