Sex, Love, & Santa Barbara
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Warts and All
The Biker Returns to SB and Into Chassy's Arms
He’s back. Tanned, toned, and charming as ever! My long lost boyfriend has finally returned from the dark corners of Europe. Read story.
The Words and the Sound of Silence
Chassy Hears Those Three Little Words
The Biker calls from overseas to say "I love you," and Chassy's response is less than reciprocative. Read story.
Hot or Heavy
Body Types and Bike Rides
Chassy dishes on why she dressed up pretty — and what fun can happen when she doesn't. Read story.
The One and Lonely
Is Monogamy Really the Answer?
With her boyfriend away, Chassy ponders the pros and cons of serial monogamy Read story.
Mate & Multiply
Chassy Ponders Life, Love, and the Pursuit of Children
With her new boyfriend away overseas, Chassy stays home, winds down, and begins to ponder her future goals. Read story.
Unchecked Baggage
Losing Luggage Doesn’t Mean You’re Traveling Easy and Free
Chassy discusses how updating old friends about recent loves can bring up some painful issues. Also: Is snooping ever permissible? Read story.
The Laws of Love
Chassy's Sub Talks Attraction, Action, and Satisfaction
Ryan Keys-Matthews of CoachmeCasanova.com lays down some ground rules for finding that special someone. Read story.
Soulmate in Santa Barbara
"Coach Me Casanova" Subs in for Chasseur d'Homme
Ryan Keys-Mathews of CoachMeCasanova.com subs in for The Indy's Chasseur d'Homme. Read story.
Get Your Flirt On
A Little Innocent Flirting Goes a Long Way
Chassy takes a little pre-vacation vacation and rediscovers the joys of no-strings-attached flirting. Read story.
Putting Him To The Test
When’s the Time for Safe Sex?
As Chassy gets deeper into her relationship with The Biker, she's wondering when it's time to take off the condom. Read story.
Too Much Information
Things are on an even keel with The Biker (or should I say my new BF?). And let me reiterate that my interest in the man is not purely physical or sexual—like some suggested—although I do appreciate his perfect Brad Pitt-like buttocks; nothing wrong with that. Read story.
Shape Up or Ship Out
Polish is so not the new sexy. If it was, I’d have to make a few changes to my appearance, like growing a mustache and dying my hair bright orange. Read story.
Enter Polish Pro Tennis Player
Ryan is of the firm belief that I need to exercise less caution in my relationship with The Biker (speak up about any super-ex-fears etc.), forget about my fling; The Writer (he called this “a comfort thing that goes nowhere”), and be open to new friendships and perhaps more, as long as I’m not in an exclusive relationship. Time to go with my primal instincts! Read story.
Near Naked Ambush at the Gym
Is The Biker's Super Ex Stalking Chassy?
Thanks so much to those of you who emailed me and commented with your blind date disaster stories! It was highly entertaining, and certainly made me feel like a lot less of a failure in the first-date-department. Also, I was excited to see that a (hot!) real-live relationship expert has popped up and offered to share some advice on how to succeed in the dating game. Read story.
A Perfect-on-Paper Blind Date
Johnny Depp Look-a-like Just Doesn't Do It for Chassy
Chassy goes on a blind date with a Johnny Depp look-a-like, worries about running into The Biker, and then sparks up a text message conversation with The Writer. And she's wondering what everyone else's blind dating life is like, so let her know! Read story.
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