Sex, Love, & Santa Barbara
Warts and All
He's back. Tanned, toned, and charming as ever! My long lost boyfriend has finally returned from the dark corners of Europe. Read story.
Friday, June 29, 2007
The Words and the Sound of Silence
The Biker calls from overseas to say "I love you," and Chassy's response is less than reciprocative. Read story.
Friday, June 22, 2007
Hot or Heavy
Chassy dishes on why she dressed up pretty - and what fun can happen when she doesn't. Read story.
Thursday, June 14, 2007
The One and Lonely
With her boyfriend away, Chassy ponders the pros and cons of serial monogamy Read story.
Friday, June 8, 2007
Mate & Multiply
With her new boyfriend away overseas, Chassy stays home, winds down, and begins to ponder her future goals. Read story.
Friday, June 1, 2007
Unchecked Baggage
Chassy discusses how updating old friends about recent loves can bring up some painful issues. Also: Is snooping ever permissible? Read story.
Thursday, May 24, 2007
The Laws of Love
Ryan Keys-Matthews of CoachmeCasanova.com lays down some ground rules for finding that special someone. Read story.
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
Soulmate in Santa Barbara
Ryan Keys-Mathews of CoachMeCasanova.com subs in for The Indy's Chasseur d'Homme. Read story.
Friday, May 4, 2007
Get Your Flirt On
Chassy takes a little pre-vacation vacation and rediscovers the joys of no-strings-attached flirting. Read story.
Monday, April 30, 2007
Putting Him To The Test
As Chassy gets deeper into her relationship with The Biker, she's wondering when it's time to take off the condom. Read story.
Monday, April 23, 2007
Too Much Information
Things are on an even keel with The Biker (or should I say my new BF?). And let me reiterate that my interest in the man is not purely physical or sexual-like some suggested-although I do appreciate his perfect Brad Pitt-like buttocks; nothing wrong with that. Read story.
Monday, April 16, 2007
Shape Up or Ship Out
Polish is so not the new sexy. If it was, I'd have to make a few changes to my appearance, like growing a mustache and dying my hair bright orange. Read story.
Monday, April 9, 2007
Enter Polish Pro Tennis Player
Ryan is of the firm belief that I need to exercise less caution in my relationship with The Biker (speak up about any super-ex-fears etc.), forget about my fling; The Writer (he called this "a comfort thing that goes nowhere"), and be open to new friendships and perhaps more, as long as I'm not in an exclusive relationship. Time to go with my primal instincts! Read story.
Monday, April 2, 2007
Near Naked Ambush at the Gym
Thanks so much to those of you who emailed me and commented with your blind date disaster stories! It was highly entertaining, and certainly made me feel like a lot less of a failure in the first-date-department. Also, I was excited to see that a (hot!) real-live relationship expert has popped up and offered to share some advice on how to succeed in the dating game. Read story.
Monday, March 26, 2007
A Perfect-on-Paper Blind Date
Chassy goes on a blind date with a Johnny Depp look-a-like, worries about running into The Biker, and then sparks up a text message conversation with The Writer. And she's wondering what everyone else's blind dating life is like, so let her know! Read story.





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