Rich Cervantez

Rich was an extraordinary partner, a rare soul whose kindness, patience, loyalty, and gentle spirit made life feel effortless and full of light. To be loved by him was to feel accepted, never judged, and to know what it means to be cherished in the purest way. His unwavering loyalty created a sense of safety and security I had never known before a feeling of home that will stay with me forever. He taught me what love is supposed to be how it uplifts, strengthens, and makes you feel most alive.

This past year without him has been the most painful and difficult time of my life, bringing moments of deep existential sorrow. Yet even in his absence, Rich’s presence has never left me. He continues to show up in countless ways: through the unwavering support of his friends, the love of his mother, the kindness of his brother, the memories we shared, and the quiet signs he sends to remind me he is near. Too many to name from the familiar scent of his cologne, to the song of a cardinal that I continued to hear for months, to the moment it finally appeared at the exact moment I asked, “Why did you leave me, Rich?” he continues to speak to me in ways that transcend this world.

Time has not diminished my love for him. If anything, it has deepened. Rich, thank you for coming into my life and for staying with me in every way that matters. My sweet, gentle love—te amo, always.

I would like to extend my heartfelt gratitude to all who have carried me through this journey: my daughters, my Mom, Martha, the Bishop crew, and my Stormi. Your love and support have kept me standing when I thought I could not.

Rich’s life was a gift, his love a blessing, and his presence a lasting light that will never fade.

Your loving girlfriend, Judi Sotelo.