Delores “Del” Vigil
Born on August 17, 1942, in Missoula, Montana, Delores was the middle of three children and the daughter of Del and Marian (Lynch) Abrams. She married Jim Freer in 1961, and together they raised four children in Missoula and Thompson Falls. The family shared many joyful moments picking huckleberries in summer, fishing at Lake Mary Ronan’s Camp Tuffit, and visiting relatives across western Montana.
A talented hair stylist, Delores brought beauty and joy to others through her work. She competed in numerous hair shows throughout her career, earning many awards. Her passion for connecting with people was evident in her warm demeanor and vibrant spirit.
Following her divorce, Delores married Jose Vigil, a fellow stylist from Spokane, Washington. The couple eventually moved to Ventura, California, where they embraced coastal life and formed lasting friendships. After Jose’s passing, Delores moved to the Ventura Townehouse assisted-living community, where she continued to make meaningful connections.
Del lived a life rich in creativity, faith, and friendship. She was known for her quick sense of humor, infectious laughter, and deep devotion to her church families at Ventura Missionary Church and Jubilee Church. Her beautiful, handwritten thank-you notes (even sent to her kids) were a cherished trademark.
She is survived by her children Shannon Gordon (Don), Ginnie Brossard (Stan), Frank Freer, and Lisa Ring; grandchildren Carter Brossard (Gianna), Dana Gordon (Maggie), Tyler Gordon, Josh Johnson, Sarah Freer, and Connor Freer; and cousins Mary Hendry (Arne) and Pegg Ward (Larry).
Del also was lucky enough to share a loving five-year relationship with her boyfriend Saeed Saadati, who remained by her side during her final years, providing love, encouragement, laughter and care. He continues to care for their beloved dog Joey.
The family wishes to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the staff and management of Casa San Miguel where Mom received exceptional care and loving compassion in her final months.
She filled our lives with love, laughter and a spirit that stayed young well into her 80s. We hope her joy and generosity continue to live on in all of us.
A Celebration of Life memorial service will be held in Ventura in the spring.
