Roxanne Elaine (Reinesto) Dahlen
We are deeply saddened to announce the news of Roxanne Elaine (Reinesto) Dahlen’s passing. She peacefully departed on December 28, 2024, at the age of 73, surrounded by her loved ones after a brief illness. Roxanne was born on April 27, 1951, in Santa Barbara, California, and was the cherished only child of Joseph and Dorothy Reinesto.
Roxanne leaves behind her loving family: devoted husband Roger; son, Shawn and his wife Denise; daughter, Shannon and her husband Chris; grandchildren, Ashley, Hunter, Brooklyn and Cole; and step grandchildren Daniela, and Addison. She also has several cousins, nieces and nephews she cared about deeply. Roxanne was a dedicated wife, mother, and grandmother who always put family first. Her warmth, kindness, and unwavering love touched the lives of everyone around her.
A Santa Barbara native, Roxanne first attended Hope Elementary School before transferring to Vieja Valley, where she unknowingly went to school with her future husband, Roger. She then went onto La Colina Junior High and graduated from San Marcos High School in 1969. Throughout her school years, she formed many lifelong friendships, including a close-knit group of girlfriends she considered her chosen family. Her first job was at Jedlica’s Western Wear, where she fondly recalled the friendships and experiences that blossomed, including meeting and dating her high school sweetheart, Roger.
On October 5, 1969, shortly after graduating, Roxanne and Roger exchanged vows at Saint Raphael’s Church in a ceremony filled with hope and promise. Following a brief honeymoon, they relocated to Norfolk, Virginia, where Roger was stationed with the Navy. Once his service concluded, they returned to warmer climates. Their love story was one of devotion, partnership, and enduring affection. Together, they shared 55 wonderful years of marriage, building a home filled with laughter, warmth, and unconditional love. Their bond was a testament to what true partnership means, and created countless cherished memories that will live on in the hearts of their family.
Roxanne embarked on a 30+ year career in accounting, starting at Sambo’s, where her dedication and hard work quickly earned her recognition. She later became a controller for Invest West and ultimately retired as the Vice President of Finance at Pacifica Hotel Co., leaving behind a legacy of professionalism and integrity. Beyond her career, Roxanne was a pillar of her community and a shining example of generosity and involvement. She actively contributed to her high school reunion committee, fostering connections and keeping the spirit of her class alive. Her life was also devoted to her children’s activities—she was a Cub Scouts den mother, an enthusiastic PTA volunteer, and a loyal supporter of local sports. Whether she was enthusiastically ringing the “cowbell” to cheer for Shawn during his football games or attending and encouraging Shannon at her pageants, dance competitions, and cheerleading events. Roxanne was always their biggest supporter.
With an adventurous spirit and a love for travel, Roxanne cherished the times spent with friends and family on cruises, camping trips, concerts and day excursions to the casino. Among some of her favorite destinations were the Hawaiian Islands and Laughlin, Nevada, where she and Roger enjoyed extended stays. She especially loved playing digital poker machines and was known for her uncanny luck, often returning with stories of her winnings and unforgettable moments. Additionally, Roxanne and Roger also shared a passion for classic cars, and together they enjoyed participating in car clubs, often spending weekends at car shows, sharing laughter and memories with fellow enthusiasts.
Roxanne was the matriarch and glue of her family, she will be missed more than words can express, but forever remembered by all who knew and loved her. Her legacy of love, kindness, and strength will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to be part of her life.
A celebration of Roxanne’s life will be held on Saturday, February 8th, 2025, at 10:30 AM at Mulligan’s Cafe. Family and friends are invited to join in remembering and honoring the beautiful person she was and the life she lived.