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    Alyce Faye Cleese created this doll for the Girls Inc. benefit.


    Doll-ing for Dollars


    Thursday, November 15, 2007
    By J'Amy Brown (Contact)
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    When it comes to dolls, Montecito doesn’t toy around. Village resident Ty Warner, for example, parlayed some beanbag dolls into three South Coast golf courses, two Montecito high-end hotels, and one beach club — along with a few billion bucks in the bank.

    With the understanding that dolls aren’t just child’s play, Montecito’s artists and celebrities have lined up with enthusiasm to submit some one-of-a-kind creations for a November 30 Girls Inc. benefit art-doll auction. The event will be held at the Contemporary Arts Forum from 6-9 p.m., and tickets are $85. Montecitans are always game to play, especially when it come to a good cause, so it was no surprise to hear that Peter Clark, Ann Diener, Ginny Speirs, John Cleese, and his wife Alyce Faye Cleese have been inspired to create dolls for the benefit.

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    “Dolls let you dream the impossible,” explained Mrs. Cleese, a psychotherapist and author. “I came from a poor background. When you have nothing, imagining something is more important than anything.”

    Cleese used her imagination to create a story to go along with her Girls Inc. creation. “Her name is Starlight Starbright, and she is dressed to go to the ball,” Cleese said. “I want her to have all she wishes for tonight.”

    To make sure Starlight starts off her adventure on the right foot, Cleese enticed longtime friend and London fashion designer Tomasz Starzewski to be the doll’s co-creator. Starzewski was at home with the ball gown assignment, as he has dressed more than one real-life doll for a ball, including Sarah Ferguson, the former Duchess of York; Maggie Thatcher; Camilla, Duchess of Cornwall; and Diana, Princess of Wales. Starzewski chose royal purple threads for Starlight, and gave her jewel-encrusted, light-as-a-feather dancing pumps.

    So what is this fascination with dolls that has grown men reduced to dressing miniatures? Carved from wood, bundled from straw, sewn from fabric, or cast in fragile porcelain, dolls have found their way into the souls of most human cultures. Often passed on from generation to generation, dolls are thought to have existed in even the most primitive civilizations, and religious icon dolls have been retrieved from ancient Greek and Roman temples. We humans, it seems, are drawn to create small representations of ourselves.

    The Girlfriends Project: Celebrating Doll Artistry

    • When: Friday, Nov. 30, 2007, 7 p.m. to 9 p.m.
    • Where: Contemporary Arts Forum, 653 Paseo Nuevo, Santa Barbara
    • Cost: $85 - $125
    • Age limit: Not available

    Full event details

    “Who doesn’t love a doll?” asked The Independent’s psychology writer Michael Seabaugh. “For both men and women, dolls are useful because they are objects we can control and, in doing so, we learn how to be real humans.” Doll dominance, Seabaugh said, allows us to experiment with human relationships. We can learn nurturing and social role-playing in an imaginary and safe place. But, he said, letting go of dolls is part of the reality. “It is important to be able to move on from the transitional plastic object that dolls are and relate to the real thing — something that many people are unfortunately unable to do,” said Seabaugh.

    In one infamous doll-ditching story, an unfortunate Montecito doll owner went, we suspect, from the dollhouse to the doghouse. It happened on August 24, 2004, when some horrified motorists driving down East Valley Road noticed a human limb hanging out of a trashcan. They immediately called 911 and, fearing the worst, the Santa Barbara County Sheriff’s Department sealed off a portion of East Valley Road for a three-hour homicide investigation. In the end, investigators determined the only thing trashed and dead was an anatomically correct, $10,000 sex doll!

    The unnamed perpetrator was probably attempting to quietly rid themselves of doll dependency, but their efforts instead ballooned into news headlines, and the story remains, years later, one of Montecito’s most amusing toy tales. The case was closed, because playing with dolls isn’t a crime, but Montecito has always considered the incident one of our most glaring episodes of foul play!

    Hopefully the only headlines coming from the doll auction for Girls Inc. on November 30 will be about the thousands raised to help young girls develop into empowered women.

    For more Montecito Montage, which comes out every Wednesday online, see independent.com/montecito.

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    This is one of the most glaring demonstrations of lazy journalism and complete disrespect to all the citizens of Santa Barbara who work for and with Girls Inc.! There is absolutely no need to mention anatomically correct sex dolls in an article promoting an event "to help young girls develop into empowered women." The "amusing" toy tale isn't amusing at all, and does nothing to promote Girls Inc. and it's amazing community work - it is merely filler that illustrates Ms. Brown is more interested in using up her column space than actually writing an article. She should be ashamed of herself.

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    kadiva (anonymous profile)
    November 20, 2007 at 12:57 p.m. (Suggest removal)

    Let me say, I am no prude. But when I first read Ms. Brown’s article I was certain that the editor must have cut and pasted two articles together by mistake. I finally realized that wasn’t the case. Please tell me Ms. Brown, what does an anatomically correct sex doll have to do with a fundraising event for a charity dedicated to “…help young girls develop into empowered women.”? The answer is, nothing! Were you trying to amuse your readers or merely titillate them? You failed horribly at both.

    My next question is, what brainless editor actually let you publish this? Are you standards truly this low? Do you really need to add such pointless filler to your poorly written articles?

    Ms. Brown’s bio says, “Brown…attended USC School of Journalism…” I hope USC wasn’t foolish enough to give her a degree. Well, is does say ‘attended’, not ‘graduated from’. I guess USC’s standards aren’t as low as the Independent’s.

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    WaltDizknee (anonymous profile)
    November 21, 2007 at 7:17 p.m. (Suggest removal)

    As J'Amy's "brainless" editor, and the one who added the last line about empowering women, I feel compelled to respond to the unnecessarily vicious attacks on the best reporter in Montecito.

    J'Amy's job is not to publicize social events such as Girls Inc.'s fundraiser. Her job, if you read most of her Montecito Montage reporting, is about covering Montecito's news, usually being the first to do so. (She was, if you remember correctly, the one who broke the news of Caruso buying the Miramar, among other stunning scoops.)

    However, in this regard, she decided to go against her normal routine, do someone a favor, and turn in what amounts to basic, if lively, PR writing for Girls Inc. That was fine, as The Indy has always supported Girls Inc. and other nonprofits in town, even though we try to refrain from printing straight puff pieces.

    To make it more than just everyday puff, J'Amy decided to bring in an element of intrigue, one that's relevant, fits the flow of the piece, quite humorous, and something that anyone with any sense of humor could appreciate. It's too bad these readers didn't see it that way. Frankly, the end of this column is the most interesting part, and there's no way it will detract from the event that she's publicizing.

    If you desire straight puff pieces on community events, I suggest reading another paper. If you want writing that's interesting and has the occasional twist, stick with the Independent.

    As for WaltDizknee, if you'd like to discuss the journalistic standards of The Independent, feel free to email me at matt@independent.com. We can have an informative chat.

    Matt (Matt Kettmann)
    November 21, 2007 at 9:31 p.m. (Suggest removal)

    The Independent and J'Amy Brown graciously devoted space to support Girls Inc. of Greater Santa Barbara and as a result were attacked for it. They supported not only this event but an event held two weeks ago and I wish to go on record as saying that I am most grateful for their continuing coverage of Girls Inc. activities. It is extremely disturbing that some readers were offended by this article and chose to strike a vicious personal attack on J'Amy and her editor, and to do it anonymously.

    J'Amy Brown continuously provides us with a thoroughly researched, unique and independent writting style, she is one of the best writers we have in Santa Barbara not just Montecito. I never miss her column and have a great deal of rspect for this woman who treats her craft with serious devotion.

    As a member of the board of directors of Girls Inc. and a committee member for the art doll event, I am embarrassed that she should be attacked for trying to help an organization I know she admires and has personally supported. It's too bad these readers could not appreciate her good dead and instead thank her for her more than generous support.

    Anne Luther

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    AnneLuther (anonymous profile)
    November 24, 2007 at 5:26 p.m. (Suggest removal)

    Anne,

    You’re the one that should be embarrassed for your conduct. It was at your direction that people should post their comments here, online, instead of sending letters to the editor. And when we do, we’re attacked, by you, for following your suggestion. It’s amazing to me how two-faced you are. But knowing you’re in PR professionally, it’s of no real surprise that you’re playing the two ends against each other, quietly supporting both.

    It’s a poorly written story. Period. My English teacher would have given me an ‘F’. Yet the Independent had no reservations about printing it. Professional standards seem to be a bit lax at the Independent.

    Sincerely and non-anonymously,

    Robert Wilson

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    November 26, 2007 at 11:24 a.m. (Suggest removal)

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