W. Carl Gans, a prominent Santa Barbara attorney and mediator, died unexpectedly of a heart attack on Tuesday, August 2, at his home in Rancho Embarcadero, north of Goleta.
Carl was born in Wenatchee, Washington, the eldest child of Bill and Bucky Gans—he an engineer and former naval officer from Pennsylvania, and she the youngest child of the Buckner homesteading family of Stehekin, Washington. When Carl was six, Bill took a job with a mining company that saw the family move first to Mexico, and later Brazil, where Carl and his two siblings (Judy and Phil) spent many of their formative years. After attending the Principia Upper School in St. Louis, Missouri, Carl earned a track scholarship to the University of Missouri.
At a church youth conference in 1969, 20-year-old Carl met a pretty young coed from Southern California, Deborah “Debi” Wells, and the two wrote to each other during her extended trip through Europe. On her way home, Debi visited Carl, and on their seventh day of dating, after careful consideration, Carl proposed marriage, and Debi accepted.
After transferring to UC Santa Barbara in 1970, Carl and Debi made their home in the Santa Barbara area and never left. Over the next 41 years, the couple raised four children, saw the births of two grandchildren, and ran a large and joyous household together.
Carl earned his BS and MS degrees in mechanical engineering and began his career at Delco Electronics in Goleta, where he worked for 20 years. As he reached his mid thirties, however, he discovered he had a gift for helping people resolve their differences. True to form, despite the demands of working full-time and raising four rambunctious children with Debi, Carl decided to earn his law degree. He attended night classes at the Santa Barbara College of Law, earned his JD and admission to the bar in 1989, and never looked back.
For the next 22 years of his life, Carl developed a family law and mediation-focused practice in Santa Barbara in close quarters with his great friends Chip Oxton and Georgia Staab, and their loving and loyal staff. For the rest of his life, his professional relationships with his partners, staff, colleagues, and clients would inspire profound happiness in Carl, and a wonderful sense of accomplishment, prompting frequent declarations that he would never completely retire.
An intensely religious man, Carl was an elder at El Montecito Presbyterian Church, where he taught classes in biblically-based conflict resolution. He was also an active member of Peacemaker Ministries and developed a portion of his legal practice around Christian Conciliation.
With close friends and family always near, Carl spent the last years of his life in a glow of personal and professional contentment: working, traveling the world, playing golf, gardening, tending to his chickens, and attending church. On Tuesday, Carl spent his final moments holding the hand of the woman he loved—his adoring wife, Debi. A loving husband, father, grandfather, son, and brother, Carl is survived by Debi and their four children (and spouses), Lisl (Rhodri), Heidi (fiancé John), Will (Rebecca), and Eric (Kristin); two grandchildren (Rhiannon and Tryfan); his mother, Bucky; his sister, Judy, and brother, Phil; and an enormous community of extended family, dear friends, and respected colleagues and clients. He will be sorely missed.
In lieu of flowers, donations would be appreciated to Peacemaker Ministries, the Buckner Homestead Heritage Foundation, and Girls, Inc. of Greater Santa Barbara, where Carl was a boardmember for 20 years.